Love in the heart was not meant there to stay.
Love
is not love till you give it away". For love to be
ever lasting and eternal every one should be aware
of
the different stages of love and know its
significance. Following are the different phases
through which you will travel in your love life and
only those who pass it will have an endless love.

ATTRACTION
Attraction can be defined as something, which is
more
than friendship and is a step towards getting ready
for a relationship. Now attraction is of two types:

a. Physical Attraction - happens when your body
reacts
to another person. Heart rate increases;
temperature
rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat
tightens; etc. This is what will tell you that you are
ready for the first contact and also whether you are
comfortable in the company of the other person.

b. Emotional Attraction - develops next if the
circumstances are right. After being drawn to a
person
physically, you then begin to come closer. If you
find
you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies,
career, education, or some other common ground --
then
an emotional attraction starts to form. Sometimes
an
emotional attraction can occur even when a
physical
attraction does not. And in this case, the bond will
be stronger between the two who connect, since no
preconceived notions based on physical
appearance has
occurred.

INTIMACY
Intimacy is something, which a person
experiences
when
you learn to trust and believe your lover. It is a
close association with another person of the
deepest
nature. You share you thoughts, feelings, and
dreams.
You feel free to discuss everything with this person
and you are absolutely comfortable in his company.
Thus intimacy develops gradually. If you can't
establish intimacy with your partner, your
relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to
endure throughout the years. Intimacy is actually
the
path to a true, healthy and beautiful relationship.

ROMANCE
Romance is the essence of a relationship. Without
romance your love life will not exist. Romance is
the
true identity of your love. It brings out your true
self and helps you be a better lover, husband and
partner. Romance is a celebration of the life you live
as part of a couple. It springs naturally and
originates from within your heart. It makes you do
things that you possibly couldn't have imagined to
do
otherwise. It shows you who you are and reminds
you of
the role you play in a relationship. Romance is not
responsibility but it is caring about your
responsibilities towards your lover and partner.
Romance is the appreciation of two people who are
celebrating the lucky coincidence that they found
each
other.

PASSION
The third stage is passion, which basically means
a
desire for another person, which has grown to an
intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where
an emotional relationship turns into a physical
relationship. The passion stage is very important.
For
from here you will understand the true meaning and
nature of your relationship. If there is no passion
then its best to let go but if there is passion in
your relationship then it is time to go on to the next
stage.

COMMITMENT
The last stage is commitment. This is when you
know
that you want to spend your whole life with this
person you love and you can do anything for him. It
is
when your whole world just revolves round your
lover
and you take a pledge to remain true to your mate
throughout good and bad times, be by his side
whenever
he needs you.

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